So Much To Come

After All - The Cardigans

2012-01-29T08:20:00.000-08:00

One of the best things about being late to tumblr is stumbling upon all these nicely themed tumblrs. What visual treats. My favorite tumblr this week is Philo Sofia where the author has a soft spot for hazy photographs and French film. She always finds the best outfits from polyvore and post them. I've been feeling so simple in my style of dress lately, nothing too fussy and nothing which requires too much thought. Which is the perfect style for a wardrobe like mine which hasn't been updated much at all this winter.

Baby - The Bird and the Bee

2012-01-27T14:33:00.000-08:00

You know when you buy one of something on sale, only to kick yourself later because it's so great and you should have bought five?? That's how I feel about this shea butter soap by The Soap and Paper Factory. Close smells of Sandalwood, Vetiver and all things hippie and lovely. The scent creeps out my bathroom into the hallway as subtle as the effects of sweet mary jane. I bought this bar on sale for $3.95 from Anthro and now I shall be paying the full eight dollars. Because I need it in my life.

#firstworldproblems

Aurora - Björk

2012-01-26T22:25:00.000-08:00

My Father is pretty hip with a fantastic eye for detail. Despite his exterior (seriously, the man lives in cargo pants), he enjoys many of the same things you and I do. The Selby being one of them. And upon viewing the photos of Angelika Taschen's resplendent home, he immediately sent me an email which said "Is that photograph over the bed from a certain gallery opening you attended in London?" Upon further inspection, I have ruled it a "no", but he never forgets the moments when I shine the brightest, usually making a complete and utter spectacle of myself. There has been nothing ultra mundane about my life.

"Looking hard for moments of shine" - Aurora, Björk

Little Girl Blue - Chet Baker

2012-01-26T12:33:00.000-08:00

Why so blue Karl?
Though if I'm honest, I rarely associate blue with melancholia, more so with serenity. I like this well rounded couture collection because it speaks to the many different Chanel couture customer. And there's something exuberant about the blue and the way it's used. Especially in the cocktail gowns.

Similar to how I could never be blue staring at this painting by Mark Rothko.

(Photos from: Style and That Kind of Woman)

The Old Revolution - Leonard Cohen

2012-01-25T23:13:00.000-08:00

I cannot even pretend like this thought has never crossed my mind.
I most certainly would have voted for Herman Cain!

(From: Post Secret)

Bird On The Wire - Leonard Cohen

2012-01-25T07:03:00.000-08:00

It would seem that all I want to do these days is read. I've had a few weeks off from work and gotten into the leisurely pace of reading and working out, both good for body and mind. I wonder how next week I shall fare when I'm back to a 9 to 5 schedule with some days blocked on the weekend.

Hur Chariot's pairing of Murakami covers by John Gall with Sartorialist streetwear photography marries my two favorite things together (as those that know me understand that Murakami is one of my favorite authors after having picked up one of his books at random at 19 years of age). I think Hur Chariot has done a beautiful job here. Each one of these more brilliant than the next. I have read each of these books. Favorites are Norwegian Wood and South of the Border West of the Sun. You know I'm a romantic at heart.

Love Yourself - Queen Ifrica

2012-01-20T11:43:00.000-08:00

For Lara, who will have beautiful babies.

Plucked from the womb, thrust into a world of obscurity and placed into the loving arms of her parents during the supposed age of post-racism the black female is armed with certain tools to ensure her survival. In the words of sweet patron Joni, heart of humor and humility will often lighten up the heavy load. But when you run out of humor and you think the other person suffers from a total lack of humility, sometimes you have to break out your trusty, "bitch, please" face (the other tool which is bestowed upon you from birth). This was Avery yesterday after some idiot commented, "oh look how white she is."

Would she not be cute if she were darker? The offender continued with her moronic commentary and even got close to Avery placing her own arm against Avery's cheek to prove her idiotic point. My cheeks flushed with anger. At that point, we all turned on our heels and began to walk. Someone was about to feel the rage of one angry mother, one angry grandmother and one angry Auntie. As soon as we got far enough away, I looked down at Avery and snapped this photo of her face. My thoughts exactly.
When was it ever acceptable to comment on a child's skin tone? You ain't got shit else to say, idiot?

Dark Girls: Preview from Bradinn French on Vimeo.

Timely enough, this new documentary Dark Girls, is now available in theaters. If you're reading this blog post and you're unsure why the outrage, please watch this trailer. Watch this trailer either way. Imperialism and racism has given an entire race a complex about their skin. The reality is, many women grow up feeling ugly. If you're black sometimes the odds are really stacked against you, especially when media portrays photo after photo of smiling white faces. History can never be re-written but we can all stand to be a little bit kinder to each other and more aware.

One of Us Cannot Be Wrong - Leonard Cohen

2012-01-19T21:12:00.000-08:00

Caroline Wang seems to like almost EVERYTHING I like.
And she makes lovely prints of them and sells them in her etsy shop Coco Draws. So if you're looking for something pretty and sweet to bright up your blank walls, perhaps you'll give her a go. I think these would look lovely in any office.

C'était ici - Yann Tiersen

2012-01-18T21:48:00.000-08:00

In the winter I like nothing more than a pair of plump, healthy looking lips. I might feel like I'm freezing to death but I'd prefer to look rosy cheeked and flushed. Through the years I've tried a large amount of tinted lip balms and glosses and none of them have had a lasting mark with me (with the exception of good old Burts Bees). Has anyone tried Korres USA? Any feedback? Lara, I'm looking at you, beauty queen . . . who will have BEAUTIFUL babies.

Bookends - Simon and Garfunkel

2012-01-17T19:51:00.000-08:00

Apparently all the bookish fashion girls freaked when they saw these book clutches ($1520) by Olympia Le-Tan. They're completely sold out! The only one I haven't read is Les Liaisons Dangereuses. What about you?

Moondance - Van Morrison

2012-01-15T11:59:00.000-08:00

Because I can't wait. And neither can you. Peas, shall we? (Offers arm).

Cry Me A River - Julie London

2012-01-13T10:16:00.000-08:00

Hey Peas, this awesome polka dotted scarf was totally going to be your birthday present until I saw the pricetag. Don't blame me. Blame Marc. Just kidding. We all know Marc can do no wrong.

For Free - Joni Mitchell

2012-01-11T06:56:00.000-08:00

I'm selling my Quoddy's on ebay. Not because they're not awesome. But just because if you've been reading this blog for a little bit, than you know I have a problem with shoes. The only way to reign in the excess is to deny myself a couple of things, serving as a reminder that I can live without. And whatever happened to me crafting? These days all I seem to do is knit. If I had all the tools, I would take a stab at this old moccasin tutorial. K. Line . . . Ambika . . . this is your assignment . . .

PS- "For Free" is one of my most favorite songs ever. If you've never heard it, give it a listen and get ready to feel your heart grow heavy.

(Tutorial from: Vineet Kaur)

Angoisse - Serge Gainsbourg

2012-01-06T06:19:00.001-08:00

Une Fille Comme Les Autres from Jalouse blog on Vimeo.

"F*ck that sh*t. I want to be like her."
"Well . . . dude, it's easy. Just buy Jalouse and be like me or at least be my friend or something."

I love a hint of irony, sarcasm and french joie de vivre bullsh*t. As a matter of fact, it's probably a safe bet to say I ate this video for Jalouse blog by Matthew Frost, up with a spoon. And despite the fact that they're poking fun at the idea the entire time, I think they've successfully made a swoon worthy type of video which makes you crave a certain lifestyle. All while being super sarcastic and shallow about it. Boom. Done. (Speaks leagues about my generation).

Speaking of the French, I bought this A.P.C. sweatshirt yesterday from the Outnet for a fraction of the full price. I love motherf*ckin stripes. Boom. Done.

(Video by way of Susie Bubble).

The Splendour - Pantha Du Prince

2012-01-04T20:54:00.000-08:00

A few years back, I did what I would always do and stood by a friend during a rough time. And for some glorious reason, this friend felt the need to repay the favor by gifting me a goody bag from a popular awards show. We should all be disgusted by how many freebies those who are already rich snatch up at these silly events. However it is not at all disgusting when such bags are handed over to my possession. I couldn't believe all the treats. Among the items was a tin of Steam Cream which I have been slapping on liberally this winter like it were water. It is probably one of the best moisturizers I have used in a long time and it's not at all heavy. It goes on super light with a consistency like whipped cream, but my feet stay soft all day long in my socks.

Noticing that my supply was getting dangerously low, I went on the haunt for a new tin.
Gulp. $18. Guess I'll have to wait on that one.

Untitled (Mexico) - Slowdive

2012-01-02T20:45:00.000-08:00

Any New Years Resolutions? Nope. Me neither. Mine are all completely selfish, like take more vacations. But I have noted a few things have changed from last year to this year. One thing is that I am starting the year out with nails. After being a lifetime nail biter and enjoying it greatly, I think I finally just got bored with the habit. Don't get me wrong, I could easily gnaw them off again while sitting in some grade A DC metropolitan rage inducing traffic. But for now, they're very ladylike. And it's kind of odd.

The colors I've been rotating this winter all come from Essie. Carry On, Chinchilly and Turquoise & Caicos. Essie is under $10 and unlike some ridiculously overpriced brands (ahem, Chanel) it stays for days. I'm hooked.

What Are You Doing New Year's Eve - (sung by Zooey Deschanel and Joseph Gordon-Levitt )

2011-12-29T19:48:00.000-08:00

Consider this a virtual midnight kiss from my lips to your face, dears. It's like she never even broke his heart in that movie that tugged at all of our heart strings. Let's hope 2012 is as happy as their jolly little melody. Click the snowflake to make it snow. (C'mon, you know you want to).

I'll probably be wearing this dress and standing around drinking cocktails with Emi and her interesting colleagues. What about you?

(Photo: from Elsa at Elle.se).

Sumayah - Ahmed Jamal

2011-12-28T20:36:00.000-08:00

This week I have taken a break from wearing make up, working out and dancing ballet.
And let me tell you, it feels glorious. Ballet's pretty trendy right now. There are blogs devoted to posting dewey pictures of lithe ballerinas in perfect arabesque but often I wonder how many of the admirers truly understand the hard work that goes into the art form? Don't get me wrong, sometimes it makes you feel great. But as much as it lifts you up, it can also bring you down. So this break was timely.

Tonight I snuggled deep into one of my parent's cozy armchairs, drank a cold creamy beer and cracked open the copy of Brooklyn Magazine Cornpuddin' brought home from her apartment in NYC. The highlight of the magazine for me was the short story by Justin Taylor. Have you had a chance to glance at it yet?

(Photos from: Sacramento Street and RiadieRia)

Xmas Swagger - Princess Superstar

2011-12-24T08:03:00.000-08:00

I love Princess Superstar. Mostly because she loves Christmas and hos and she loves Christmas everything even though she's mostly Jew. Happy Holidays lovelies to you, yours' and whatever you may celebrate and love.

They Like It Slow - Star Slinger

2011-12-23T13:00:00.000-08:00

Through the busy, the crazy and the fatigue . . . you must all continue to shine bright and you will, because you are all stars. All accessories from Topshop. Some even on sale (the ring). How do you like that?

Parosol - Jonquil

2011-12-23T09:58:00.000-08:00

Kat George has brought the Australian brand, Dress Up to my attention. I must say, minimalism seems to be that on pointe trend that everyone strives for these days. But that doesn't mean everyone does it well. I like that Dress Up keeps it simple, while still adding their own touches, like a sneaky culotte or an exaggerated shirt tail to the mix.

Life - Kotez

2011-12-21T09:34:00.000-08:00

(polyvore.com)

It's all too much sometimes. I remember once as a child, thinking that adults were so terribly silly for dreading the holidays. I mean what's not to love? My naive child like mind is a constant source of nostalgic humor as I glance back knowingly from my big girl shoes (I hate that stupid phrase). The problem is, now that I'm working on most weekends (in addition to M-F), I am left with no time for pretty much anything. I have a specific list of goals for every weekend and if I make it through half, it's a miracle, but I still feel incredibly guilty. Cleaning my room is ever present on that list because the place is a bonified shithole. I can't walk without tripping over something. Last weekend I:

- Cleaned my bathroom. (It didn't take long).
- Grocery shopped.
- Bought more presents.
- Treated my Pops to brunch.
- Helped my sister and her husband unpack their house.

And despite it all. I still feel (sigh), like I got nothing done. Isn't that the worst?

Speaking of big girl shoes, how ridiculous are these bespoke Nikolas Kirkwoods? If I bought these to wear on Christmas morning would you all give up on me? Yeah? Yup, I would too.

String Quartet No. 3 (Mishima) - Phillip Glass

2011-12-19T11:52:00.000-08:00

Shhh.
Do you feel it?
Does it stir your soul?
Can you feel it within your chest?
This.
This, is why I dance. It's all so perfect, who could want for more?

(And Philip Glass' string quartets are one of the many reasons why one day I will play the cello).

Nowness and Block Magazine present this stunning video with the help of New York City Ballet principle Janie Taylor, who wears Chloe through out.

The Luck Without - Throwing Snow

2011-12-16T10:41:00.000-08:00

You can really get a good grasp on my moods by looking at the colors in my Pinterest. Lately it's been a lot of sea green, grey, but mostly white. I keep pining for white rooms and I recognize that as a desperate plea for simplicity in my own life. Trust me. My own room? A state of disaster. My life? That too. I run from one job to another often emptying one bag, exchanging it for a larger one, grabbing my laptop, swapping shoes, throwing the discarded pair in the closet, taking in a box of something I ordered and dumping it on the floor, to open later hastily lacking the usual joy I get from ordered clothing. I want to keep working, obviously, but in the new year, I'd like a little bit of calm and order too. Here's hoping. But for now enjoy my favorite white rooms.

(Photos collected from: That Kind of Woman, The Gentlewoman, One Tall Girl, R Du Jour, Lindsay Charlotte and Cool It Again)

Memory Lane Happiness - Netsky vs. Lost Witness

2011-12-15T21:38:00.001-08:00

I promise not to turn this into a look-how-cute-my-niece-is blog. But I was completely taken off guard by how much joy this baby would bring into our lives.

(PS - That's my baby picture. I told Mum that she looked like me and it was denied until I pulled out the albums).

Lofticries - Purity Ring

2011-12-12T13:40:00.000-08:00

Sorry I'm such a misery guts you guys . . . but thanks for leaving me such sweet messages. The blogging community has made me more friends than I ever imagined and I'm pretty grateful for it. My increasingly busy schedule plus the holidays in general are definitely getting me down. So what did I do? I went and bought myself some Chloe ballet flats. Because money can't buy happiness . . .

. . . but it can certainly buy you some kickass shoes.

I'm including my latest favorite song. I'm probably going to overkill this this winter, I just know it. Enjoy!

Away - Koreless

2011-12-09T06:11:00.000-08:00

How does it happen?
One minute you are fine. You are gainfully employed by a few places. Your family is healthy and happy. You feel okay . . . fine actually. And then, like the mass exodus of a flock of birds from a tree, all your happiness drains out of the picture. And suddenly you're left in a foul mood with the idea that the world is against you. I'm not sure how it happens . . . but it happens. I think mostly it's effected by the fact that it's winter, I'm quickly reaching the point of being "burnt out" and that I am long overdue for a very real vacation. Occasionally it feels like there's a void in my life where love should be. A big gaping hole the size of a crater. Sometimes I just want to turn everything and everyone off.

Photos of Wharariki Beach in New Zealand from Piccsy

About a Girl - Nirvana Covered by Cibo Matto

2011-12-06T11:35:00.000-08:00

So this is my first ever gift guide you guys! And I think it kind of sucks but because all the other bloggers do it, I supposed I should take a stab at it too. Now this would be the winter that I tried to convince my family that we absolutely shouldn't do presents so my picks are probably going to be pretty crap. So after that raving review, let's jump right into it, shall we?

First installment. What do you get for that sister or best friend? Sometimes you want to wring her neck, but most of the time you love her to bits and she makes you laugh like none other. Well, the options are pretty endless here, but I'll go with my favorites since I am both sister and friend with a fairly wringable neck.

So one of the more reasonable things on Cornpuddin's list was the Bobbi Brown 20th Anniversary Lip Palette. It's not exactly cheap at $60, but it's cheaper than an all expense paid trip to Europe.

And what sort of grinch wouldn't want a hat with an animal's face on it? I bought this fox hat for myself but there's a range of them from ($10-$20) including a racoon one. Makes me think of a certain someone who loves raccoons because "they're mean as shit".

I also think this Basquiat candle would look great in a neat uncluttered space. Meaning, not my house.

Last week I purchased these arm warmers from J. Crew in both grey and black. But I laughed when I found that J. Crew calls them "ribbed glovettes" because that sounds like a saucy code word for condoms, doesn't it? Either way, they were on sale for cheaper than they are on the website and they made me instantly happy. No cold wrist for me this winter, thank you very much.

Nothing says "I recognize that you enjoy fashiony shit", like giving someone something by the two peas in a pod, Tom Ford and Carine Roitfelt. The fashion friend loves a nail polish and a book.

I do believe that holiday present giving should be about buying people stuff, that they normally wouldn't buy for themselves. Yes $30 for Tom Ford nail polish is ludicrous. But if it's just one and someone else purchased it, it's not so bad, is it?
Carine Roitfeld's Irreverent, I actually haven't had the chance to flip through, but I like Carine so I'll take a leap of blind faith on this one.

Last, but certainly not least, I haven't tried the Clean Fresh Laundry scent. But I've tried the other Cleans and I have a hunch that it probably smells amazing. I meet very few people who do not like these products. Fail proof.
Refinery29's holiday designer collaborations are pretty flippin sweet. I could go for most of the items (bummer about the final sale business). But I think I'm going to order this Samudra Beach Inspired clutch for myself. Which means you could probably get it for any cool friend and they would most likely love it too.

So . . . READY . . . SET . . . SHOP.

UPDATE

The Refinery29 clutch is no longer available which is such a bummer because I didn't get my hands on it either. However, this swell tote from Roxy" is and it's on sale. Hurry, before that slips through our fingers as well!

ANOTHER UPDATE:

Refinery29 clutch is back on the site until Saturday. I'm buying mine right after I write this.

(Also, I realize there are lines in some of these pictures, but to go back and fix them would make me want to ram my head through the computer and I'd like to avoid that, if I could . . .)

Water From The Same Source - Rachels

2011-12-03T10:16:00.000-08:00

"I don't wanna buy anything from any store and I don't want to wear anything in my wardrobe."

This lady has piles of style and humour to match. How could you not love her? I mean she's Peas . . .

Scarf - Sonia Rykiel
Pants - I forgot . . .
Sweater - Can't even take a stab on this one.
Boots muthafuckin' boots - Acne

Heaven's On Fire - The Radio Dept.

2011-11-29T07:24:00.000-08:00

I nearly screamed at my desk when I read this. Instead I screamed on twitter and I rarely find it necessary to use all caps. I haven't been into designer collaborations recently. It's not that I don't like them, it's that often they carry a pricetag nearly as steep as the regular high end merchandise on sale . . . so it all seems a bit counter productive? I mean people selling low grade Missoni scarves on eBay for higher than a really gorgeous one at Nordstrom Rack makes no sense to me.

But I pretty much love everything Marni puts on the runway and I'm prepared to (sigh) . . . even wait in line for it.

I really have my fingers crossed that there will be lots of cool accessories similar to this sold out horn and flower necklace from The Outnet. Marni's jewelry always catches my eye but rarely does my wallet agree with me that I need a $900 wood necklace.

Admit It - Ambitious Lovers

2011-11-28T13:15:00.000-08:00

I always like the selection of stationary and paper goods from Lazy Oaf, but this year their holiday cards are really ace!

Speaking of holidays, my darling younger sister Cornpuddin' has sent around her annual Christmas/Birthday list. Each year is more amazing than the next. Because you see, my sister is quite a serious girl. Quite serious about you buying things for her. The real stand out gems from this year's list include: an all expenses paid European vacation and a good boyfriend. Which is curious because I want those things too . . . (strokes chin . . . )

Thanksgiving.

2011-11-24T07:23:00.000-08:00

These two things made me chuckle. Enjoy your turkey day.

As Me - Land of Talk

2011-11-22T09:29:00.000-08:00

Today is a gloomy, blue day outside. Unlike this bright pop of blue on these khakis.

I will definitely be trying this Honestly WTF DIY Tutorial for the spring time. Those who know me well, understand my love for all things color blocked. One commenter mentioned that they might try this in green. What a great idea! Mint green or an emerald would be most excellent. Either way, this is being filed away in the back of my mind. I would make a special note to buy some chinos thrifted, just in case you hate the result. No need to make a rash decision and ruin the expensive Acnes.

I'm already daydreaming about spring returning to us. You?

(All photos: HonestlyWTF and Streetfsn)

The Edgy of Glory - Lady Gaga

2011-11-21T20:34:00.000-08:00

The prices are steep but the pieces are sweet.

Lady Gaga X Erickson Beamnon for Barneys. All around the $1k mark. I myself love everything here. It's exactly what I look for in jewelry. Silver and noisy.

Down In The Willow Garden - Art Garfunkel

2011-11-21T11:58:00.000-08:00

I recently had my first Jack Wills experience, on my trip to Philadelphia for work. I found the store to be full of easy-to-wear pieces with equally easy to swallow prices, though it did feel a little young for me (I'm in my late twenties). And then . . . (oh yes, what a satisfying little pause that was) walking back to my car from a party recently, I passed the Jack Wills store in Georgetown. Geez, these places are popping up like forest mushrooms. Imagine my surprise when I found out Aubin & Wills (whom I just recently purchased a top from) was the same company. Okay, I really wasn't that surprised at all. It made total sense. But Aubin and Wills carries some cute stuff and I seem to have an affinity for foxes these days . . .

At The Edge Of The World You Will Float - Telefon Tel Aviv

2011-11-21T10:00:00.000-08:00

"Enjoy it while it lasts."
You can say that again.

Lars Von Trier sure knows how to sound like a bit of a grump. I never know what to make of people who can shit all over their own hard work in an instance. I suppose they're pretty humourous to me and I do find self criticism to be revealing. Thankfully, Von Trier did make a "woman's film" because I ate that shit up with a silver spoon. In such a timely moment when you can't help but to think about the end of the world (climate change, Nibiru, end of days, whatever you want to believe), I took comfort in this film. Though it had a cold feeling overall, there was something about it that felt affirming and vaguely warm. Maybe it was the relationship between Gainsbourg and Dunst. Or maybe it was just, the blunt, sharp script.

"I think your plan is shit."

I do know, a few weeks ago, I was driving with a ballet friend when I blurted out that I had finally come to terms with the idea of the world ending. I expected her to look at me, absolutely horrified as if to say "Who is this horrible creature, I'm holed up in a car with?" But to my surprise, she agreed with me. And for that brief moment there was a closeness in the car, which was unmistakable.

My Time - Mackintosh Braun

2011-11-20T21:57:00.001-08:00

Do you ever buy an item where you have to make yourself stop physically reaching for it, when you go to get dressed in the morning? This Junya Watanabe piece is exactly that for me. I keep telling myself I can't wear it three days in a row, mostly because that's kind of gross. I first tried it on at the Commes Des Garcons store in Manhattan in 2008. But knowing that I could never afford it at full retail price, I took it off quickly. Three years later, ask on eBay and you shall receive.Today when I wore it to brunch with my parents, my mother took one look at it and declared "I don't understand your jacket."I smiled and said "It's cool, I don't understand your sartorial decisions either." And then we both laughed because it was utterly and painfully true. But my smile was large and grand because having my mother not understand my clothing means that I am not as old and crotchety as I feel!

Jacket from Junya Watanabe (salivated over and well worth the wait). Sloppy pants from J. Crew (only made sloppy because I am wearing them). Shoes from Marni (who seems to scoop up all my shoe money these days).

To Build A Home - Cinematic Orchestra

2011-11-18T11:54:00.001-08:00

Usually I try to give you some music for Friday (. . . or that's what I'm gunning for in the upcoming months). Today I stumbled across this video and had to share it. First I was captivated by her face. She is stunning but where have I seen her before? That's right, the last page of Vogue recently! I saved it. Because I liked the clothes and her face. But besides the superficial, I find Lucy Chadwick's lifestyle fascinating. Sometimes you watch these fashiony videos and a good deal of them are vacant and leave you with nothing more than pretty thoughts which are fleeting and not at all monumental. It's like chewing a stick of bubble gum. In this video, from The Selby and Zara, I fell in love with Lucy and Duffy's lifestyle. This video is like oatmeal on a cold morning. It fills you up in a most warm and delicious way. And there have been times in my life where I've felt myself skimming the surface, as Chadwick speaks of. I am better now and I think part of that had to do with leaving the city. Hmmm. What's on the agenda for the weekend, loveys?

Source: google.com via etoilee8 on Pinterest

We Do What We Want - O+S

2011-11-17T11:00:00.001-08:00

Bought. Don't even give me flack for it.I love the fact that every winter, Rick Owens rarely changes what's on the menu. You know what you're going to get. It's a credit to him because it makes his designs timeless in a way. I know I already have this jacket in tan. I also know that my tan jacket is getting beadied and a little pilled, though to it's credit, it is five years old. Oh yes and that the dry cleaners did a number on it. (L.R., it lost it's puffiness, which is part of the magic). So buy it again? Well, you know me . . .Purchased from The Outnet, where I seem to buy all my clothes these days. I'm pretty boring, I guess.Update: It's being returned. The grey doesn't pop as I expected it to. The color is muted and not that pretty on me. Plus, I like the collar of my tan jacket better. Damn.

Teenie's Blues - Oliver Nelson

2011-11-15T13:24:00.000-08:00

Awww shit. Is it really almost time for the Olympics again already? That sure snuck up on us, didn't it? And I've just realized how much this event will mess with my summer plans. Bah humbug. I recall sitting around in 2003 with my cynical Brit friends talking about what a possible shitshow the Olympics in London might be. Though I was secretly relieved when DC was out of the running. Better you guys than us! It seemed so far away and that conversation seems so long ago. Well the posters have been unveiled and I think they're really quite beautiful, despite the criticism they've received. They're available for purchase here, if you're interested.

My favorite three from above are by Martin Creed, Bridget Riley and Howard Hodgkin.

Dances Fantastic - Neva Dinova

2011-11-15T05:39:00.000-08:00

Peas remember that time when we went to the Refinery29 DC Launch party and one apple cider vodka drink later, you had purchased a large leather clutch? After we sobered up with calamari and soup from a nearby restaurant, you exclaimed "I can't believe you let me buy a bag with no handle. I'm not allowed to drink at these events anymore."

"But you wanted it so badly."
"Whatever, you're fired."
"Fired from what?"
"I don't even know."

Peas I love you. Just the way you are.

DC brought it's A game to Madewell on November 3rd. Meanwhile Peas and I just brought our wallets. (We also brought the Phil Collins jam party in the car ride there, so take a look at me now). Clutch photo from Madewell

Tape You - NER*D

2011-11-14T09:19:00.000-08:00

I know EXACTLY what that Style editor means. Comme Des Garcons scents might not sit nicely with you at first. The first time I smelled Calamus, I remember going "gross. . . . smells like freshly cut weeds from my parent's yard." But the second time I smelled it, I suddenly felt the urge to bathe in it. I then scoured the internet like a lunatic until I found it. Even though this new fragrance has hints of scotch tape and glue, I imagine my reaction will be very much the same. Hating it at first, but then wanting to splash around in it while simultaneously rubbing myself with packing tape later. You know how that goes.

(Photo: from Style)

Good Bait - Nina Simone

2011-11-13T18:54:00.001-08:00

Do you know how long it's been since I bought myself a new bag? Years. Seriously. I've been using freebie Knoll furniture tote bags mostly to cart my stuff around and they do the trick, but the sturdiest one is wearing a hole in it. So I'm looking into the possibility of getting a new bag. I love these canvas bags from Baggu. They come in a multitude of colors. But you know what I love the most? The $22 price tag!

But in the pricier range, I love this leather bag from Nikki Giling. I was never a fan of leather bags with too much hardware and decorative extras. This fills my desire to keep things as minimal as possible.

And if we're really talking about breaking the bank, why not just go all out with this swell Rachel Comey leather satchel? It might weigh in at $648 but it fills all my needs in a bag. Simplistic and huge. What's not to love?

Who makes your favorite bag?

Only Love Can Break Your Heart - Saint Etienne

2011-11-11T07:43:00.000-08:00

A song for Friday.

Blu Eye Shadow - Arto Lindsay

2011-11-10T12:11:00.000-08:00

I love the way Marcella Gutiérrez's paints. Her work has a nice 80's style, but she leaves splashes of color here and there. And in a world where making a living from your art is often unheard of, Gutiérrez sounds pretty busy. On top of a recent collaborations with Prada (she did the walls of the flagship store recently) she's got a future collaborations with Rankin lined up! Here's to that.

Illustrations from here

Liquid Days (Part One) - Philip Glass

2011-11-09T12:44:00.001-08:00

Because I did so well at not spending money in NYC over the weekend, I had to go and blow it at Body Shop in Union Station while waiting for my Dad. The Body Shop is always such a good deal (sales, sales and more sales) but besides the frugality factor, certain smells always remind me of certain friends. Because it's an international chain, I go in and smell my teenage friends. Marilyn smells like that perfume, Kate used to wear that sunblock and Aisha once loved that body butter. It's a smell trip down memory lane.

These two scents are delicious and ever so light, like the notes of a flute. Plus the packaging is delightful.

Aloe & Linen smells so fresh that it reminds me of newly laundered sheets. Meanwhile Vanilla & Tonka Bean is sweet but elegantly spicy. (And I usually HATE vanilla scented anything). But I do tend to go for musky scents when the temperature drops. Both are such a good deal because you can use them in your room, on your sheets or on your body. You can't go wrong with a three for one!

Hey Boy, Hey Girl - The Chemical Brothers

2011-11-09T05:04:00.000-08:00

Androgyny is probably one of my most favorite topics. There are days when I am dressed ultra feminine, but when I'm not (70% of the time) . . . I tend to sway that fine line where my clothing could fit nicely on a boy with a delicate features. Maybe it's the warm daydream of having a boyfriend who likes the same things as I do or perhaps it's the idea of a shared wardrobe and more space overall . . . but I for one have always thought (even when I was wee child . . . and yes, I thought a great deal about these things) that sexuality defined was too constricting in style of dress. And the older I get, the more confirmed my beliefs are that the ability to dress how we choose, live how we choose and love who we choose are among the most basic of human rights.

This affectionate shoot was styled by Michael Hennegan for oki-ni and is making me crave some winter cuddling. Oki-ni is one of those sites which I subscribe to because I love the clothes. Even though technically they are "menswear". Eh, who's to say?

Shake A Fist - Hotchip

2011-11-07T20:27:00.000-08:00

I love all of these dresses from Pixie Market but there seems to be a lack of size larges on that entire site. Why is that? Do they just sell out quickly?

Carol of the Bells - The Bird and the Bee

2011-11-03T13:21:00.000-07:00

So the stores would like us to believe that it's right around the corner. But with the recent snowfall, it does feel right around the corner. And quite frankly, I can't wait. It's going to be baby's first Christmas. And it's going to be utterly magical. Have you started your shopping? These ornaments are on my list.

(Photo: from Whiskey Soaked Cherries)

Innervoice - Hooverphonic

2011-11-02T12:35:00.000-07:00

While visiting Philadelphia recently, I found myself with time to kill and wandered over to Barney's Co-Op. There's a reason why I avoid that place.

Upon scanning the racks, I came across this Alexander Wang sweater. At first I giggled. The peplum does slightly resemble a tail while it's hanging on the rack, looking at you like a defeated kangaroo. But always one to put my money where my mouth is, I decided to try it on. Low and behold, it fits like a glove and it's so flattering. I caught myself walking towards the register like a zombie, Barney's card in hand, before I snapped out of the sweater's spell and said loudly enough for the salesgirl to hear me, "what the hell are you doing?"

I quickly put the sweater down and ran out of the store. I am no longer allowed to get mad, if random strangers think I'm insane. I do it to myself.

(Photo: from Barneys)

Call For All Demons - Sun Ra

2011-11-01T19:32:00.000-07:00

It's the first day of November which means we're officially entering the holiday season (depending on the department stores you frequent). I'd like to take this moment to remind you that as you go forth towards December, not to act like jerks, like the men in these commercials. I am 150% sure the basic principle of life is to be grateful and kind.

They'd be making their own coffee if it were me they were dealing with. Happy November!

Infinity Girl - Stereolab

2011-10-31T19:20:00.000-07:00

I am pretty sure this girl is wearing the beautiful Carven skirt which I sent back to the Outnet over the weekend. Beautiful skirt, yet so small I felt like a sausage squeezed into casing. Not a good look. Back you go. C'est dommage!

(Photo: That Kind Of Woman)

Great Pumpkin Waltz - Vince Guaraldi Trio

2011-10-31T19:03:00.000-07:00

My roommate Alejo decorated our house in the span of an evening. No elaborate planning but awesome execution. The ghosts were made with clear plastic bags. We of course had to jerry rig one from our open steps for trick or treaters with fishing line. When the childen would knock I would move the ghost around on a fishing pole from the platform. Of course none of the kids were at all impressed (they just wanted their candy), but we were amused so whatever!

Happy Halloween!

Were all your childhood holidays punctuated with a Charlie Brown Special, like mine were? It was something I really looked forward to.

Fall Break - Aim

2011-10-28T13:24:00.000-07:00

This shoot from Vogue Travel is probably one of my most favorite fashion spreads I've seen in a while. Yesterday as my roommate was recalling all the traveling she and the hub will do this year (seven trips, y'all, SEVEN . . . three international), I found myself smiling with slight envy tucked away behind it. I'm not going anywhere, probably until next summer. What about you?

But back to the clothes . . . this shoot is so colorful and makes me crave a red skirt like nobody's business. As you might know, one of my life goals is to one day look put-together when I travel (instead of cagey and anxious). I think I do okay, but never like this. Not really shooting high with the life goals, am I? Well it's a fashion blog! Nothing really profound here . . .

(Photos: from R Du Jour)

Un Sospiro in D Flat Major - Franz Liszt (played by Lang Lang)

2011-10-27T21:22:00.000-07:00

But there are moments where I do like what I do despite all the moaning and kvetching done on the side. There are moments when I get in my car to drive to my part time job only to find that my local classical radio station is playing pieces from the new Lang Lang cd, Liszt, My Piano Hero. There are moments when I look down and grin to myself, reflecting on the previous week and how my life is full of happy coincidences. There are moments when you sit in room with someone who is endlessly more gifted than you are and they're fun to watch.

As David, the director gave Lang Lang stage directions, I sat in the corner, taking notes. He listened, smiled and kept a lively conversation all while playing a beautiful sonata from memory but never breaking focus from his conversation with us. I'm not so easily won over. But I was impressed by just that tiny, little quiet moment.

Next Phase Short - Flying Lotus

2011-10-26T13:12:00.000-07:00

There is something to be said about visual branding. The yellow laces. Because when that Russian girl stepped on my train at BWI Airport, jabbering loudly on her phone and wearing these boots . . . I knew I had to have them and I knew exactly where to buy them. They'll be arriving in the mail sometime this week. They're lined with wool on the inside. And if you didn't know, they'll be kicking longer than you and I will, most likely. My first pair of Doc Martens, I bought when I was 14. It's the classic mary jane style and recently I dusted them off. It's funny how we always come back to the things we love.

If You Were Coming In The Fall - Carli Bruni

2011-10-25T19:42:00.000-07:00

Whenever I wear Rick Owens to work, I come home and I want to buy more Rick Owens. Why? Because it is the thing you can throw on over anything and look put together. A coworker referred to my wrap today it as an fashionable snuggie. You damn right it is. Sure, he does the odd terrible boot which I laugh about but for the most part I think he does pretty much everything right. How much would I love to own that orange dress? A lot. Added to the wish list.

Of course I have my eye on this. Stop judging me.

(Photos from: The Outnet and Style)

All Apologies - Nirvana

2011-10-20T18:33:00.000-07:00

I am so easily distracted. All the time. As I'm writing this I'm flipping back and forth between gchat and texting with another and listening the Ahman Jamal and . . .

(Video from: Nowness but I'm pretty sure it's a deleted scene from the Miranda July film, The Future)

Disorder - Joy Division

2011-10-20T18:29:00.000-07:00

"Ian is a professional man, secure in his sexuality and proud of his body".

Ian Stevenson's biography reached out to me in a special sort of way. The same way his art does. It makes me think it would be an excellent investment if only because it would bring a smile to my face, every time I saw it hanging on the wall. And I smile, thinking how my prim and proper Mother would would wrinkle up her lips, every time she felt forced to look at it, hanging on my living room wall. To use Mr. Stevenson's favorite word, she would look like perhaps she ate a shit sandwich.

Boots of Spanish Leather - Bob Dylan

2011-10-20T17:31:00.000-07:00

I have a new friend whom I enjoy good long conversations with. There's something exciting about new friendships and relationships. It's that lovely little place where you can find no fault with the person and they keep you pleasantly entertained and occasionally surprised. I hope we don't get bored of each other any time soon. Today we were on the topic of boots and he mentioned that he was in the market for a good pair. Always eager to help a friend out (especially in the sartorial department), I turned to my favorite site for all things man, Mr. Porter.

The top row is Quoddy and Grenson. I love Quoddy because their shoes look extremely durable and they make the sweetest looking moccasins which I can't quite commit to due to owning three pairs of moccasins already. Grenson I hadn't heard of, but I look forward to seeing more from them. I think these boots could work well with both denim and peeking out from under work slacks.

The bottom row is Belstaff and Ralph Lauren. The Belstaff boots are quite teddy boy meanwhile the Ralph Lauren boots look like they would last you for at least 10+ years.

Wondaland - Janelle Monáe

2011-10-19T20:15:00.000-07:00

There is something very modern, with a touch of old fashion about Janelle Monáe. Make no mistakes, her songs and musical style are absolute redbrick but something in the way she crones takes me back to another time. Her style as always is impeccable because she knows what she likes and she sticks with it. And of course, she's smart as a whip. Her explanation of albums Metropolis and The ArchAndroid made my eyes well up with tears. What can I say? I'm a sucker for a good story (. . . and everything makes me cry these days). Either way, here's Miss Monáe wearing some awesome clothes and her signature, pensive stare.

(The photos came from Essence magazine by way of My Fashion Life)

Arabeske for piano in C major, Op. 18 - Robert Schumann

2011-10-14T22:38:00.001-07:00

Someone recently asked me what my favorite Balanchine piece is. I don't play favorites with ballet but when it comes to a tad bit tarty and fun, I think Rubies from Jewels represents. Check out all that hip action and flirtation. I love when the two dancers high five each other.

I just realized I am working 14 days straight in a row! Madness. But very much needed. It's either feast or famine with me. I will try to keep things up to snuff around here, but if I fail, don't be too hard on me. Life is fluid and I'm just trying to run with it.

Speaking of ruby, I really want to give these reds from Scotch Naturals a try. Has anyone tried their polish before? Any reviews? I think they have an awesome palette for fall.

Oúlamán (Seaweed) - Clannad

2011-10-10T19:33:00.000-07:00

I accidentally deleted this beautiful post so I shall try and recall it from my memory.

Mont Saint Michel is one of those places where when you visit it, you will remember it for the rest of your life. My family traveled there by car and when we stumbled out of our rented minivan, we weren't quite prepared for the cold, rainy breeze which would slap out faces. We were dressed like typical American tourists in the 90's (horribly) and I wore a wind parka which I kept pulling up over my ears. As we approached the island, I clutched my Grammy's hand (she accompanied us on a few vacations), and tried to capture the memory and store it away in my heart, overwhelmed by the magnitude of it all. The wind, the smell of sea, grass and rain and the beauty of the island in the distance. It was the first time in my life I longed to hold on to a moment.

Mont St. Michel makes the type of clothing I feel you should be wearing when stumbling upon some place so magical. Warm, wooly, rustic simplicity.

Within and Without - Washed Out

2011-10-09T21:34:00.000-07:00

Source: yellowtrace.com.au via etoilee8 on Pinterest

Someone I know, once told me told me some time ago, what to do when your heart is heavy and you want to call the person who's doing the damage. I still find this advice quite relevant even today. Write their number on a slip of paper and then immediately delete their information from your phone. Take the slip of paper and fold it (feel free to use the provided heart note tutorial). Find the most dense and heaviest book on your to-read pile and flip it open to the middle, placing the paper inside. If you want to contact the person again, you must read the book until you reach the page you've placed their number within. If four years passes and you still haven't even cracked open the book, it means it really didn't matter as much as you thought it did at the time. And yes. Turns out it didn't matter, at all.

Now whoever inherits my books will find them littered with boy's telephone numbers at the rate I'm going.

Source: tumblr.com via etoilee8 on Pinterest

Oh and the last part of this exercise, go wash your face, listen to some Washed Out and quit feeling sorry for yourself. It's unbecoming.

La La Love You - Pixies

2011-10-07T18:50:00.000-07:00

You guuuys. I can't help myself. I can't stop wearing this sweater. I love it so much. I have to tell myself, "you can't wear this anymore, people will think it's the only thing you own and it will start to smell bad . . . really you have closet of nice stuff, just stop it. Put it away. Right now, Missy."

But I can't help my myself . . .

Sweater - Pringle of Scotland
Dress - Permanent Vacation
Shoes - Old Navy

Back To My Shack In The Rain Clouds - Pogo

2011-10-05T23:59:00.000-07:00

Hey Princess, where's the party? Because let's face it, these frocks by Chanel SS12 are champagne ready. I probably won't wear your futuristic space boots or those floppy looking sandals (which look like they might dig into your feet a little).

Instead, I'll pair these lovely gowns with these Valentino D'Orsay pumps.

Saying "frock" makes one sound pretentious, doesn't it? FROCK, FROCK, FROCK.

(Photos from Style and Style Me Pretty)

Thank You - Todd Edwards

2011-10-05T20:56:00.000-07:00

Sometimes I reassess the material items in my life and take stock of the excess. I think it's a healthy habit. Last week I made a list of the top five material items in my life, which I think I use the most. Cost per use, if you please. My iPod ranked up at numero uno. At this point, every use cost less than a penny because of how often I use it (pretty much all day every day). What is life without music? It's timely I should have come to this conclusion last week. Thank you Steve Jobs for making all of our lives, a little bit easier. You will be missed.

Oslo Skyline - Jaga Jazzists

2011-10-04T22:18:00.001-07:00

I want someone to come and warm my heart before winter comes and I get too cold to love.

(Photos from Gens Du Monde)

Ribbon Bows - Joanna Newsom

2011-10-01T20:11:00.001-07:00

Wouldn't it be great to be muse to Tsumori Chisato? Clicking through her spring/summer 2012 collection made me think I would happily wear nearly anything she made. She's got a great eye for color and she manages to do precious while maintaining a real womanly presence. If I see that white dress or the patchwork dress next spring I will most definitely have to try both on.

(Photos: Style)

A Series of Small Flames - Land of Talk

2011-10-01T09:47:00.000-07:00

I don't know about you but one of my favorite fall activities include walking around with my headphones on, watching the world around me transition. Fall is a really good time for listening to really great music and I have a couple of albums which always do the trick. What are you Sweets listening to?

Land of Talk, Cloak and Cipher

I've been overplaying this album since I bought it. Elizabeth Powell's voice speaks to me in this way that's hard to describe. It's both powerful and warm. When I take the dog for walks, our soundtrack is Quarry Hymns. The music reminds me of the warm autumn sunlight we dance in and the lyrics remind me that even though this week has been awful we just keep plugging away. The world doesn't stop for sadness. And if you like the vocal layering The Hate I Won't Commit will grab you by the lapels.

Beth Gibbons and Rustin Man, Out of Season

If you were that kid on the school bus who always ignored everyone and listened to Portishead, than you'll like this album as an adult. A more mature Beth Gibbons expands her range and loses some of the electronic beats while gaining some full orchestra. Sand River is the absolute winner for this time of year.

John Coltrane, My Favorite Things

I don't think I should have to sell you on this one. If you can't listen to My Favorite Things without understanding how it's perfect for autumn (or really any day you're cruising with the windows down), I just can't help you. I know you get it though. I don't surround myself with idiots.

(Photos: Amazon and That Kind of Woman)

Looking For June - Gary Higgins

2011-09-28T22:35:00.000-07:00

"I just do what I want to do" - Kate Moss

From time to time, I enjoy watching this video of a rare interview with Kate Moss. It paints Moss as a person instead a face, despite her best efforts to avoid the spotlight. Someone who can be insecure, humorous, and matter-of-factly about things. And it sounds like the fashion world hasn't always been kind to her either, for all of us daydreamers that think life would be a little easier if we were 5'8 and waif-ish. This interview reminds me why I liked her so much in the first place. Because in conclusion everyone should just do what makes themselves happiest. Easier said that done. But I truly do think Kate Moss does exactly that.

Lord Kill The Pain - Red House Painters

2011-09-28T22:26:00.001-07:00

As some point, within a weak moment, I made a promise to myself that come this winter, I would be a girl who wears eh . . . (sneer of the lip and long exaggerated sigh) . . . comfortable shoes. Don't get me wrong, I'm comfortable in all my shoes. They're fabulous and I feel wonderful in them and as soon as I get to my place of work, I take those suckers off and cram my feet under my desk out of sight. So really I'm fine. But being that work has been slow and infrequent I think I'll be doing some couch surfing this winter.

But let's not get carried away. That doesn't mean I won't be whispering sweet nothings of shoe wonders to you, my friends. These Lanvin platform cut out wedges are pretty majestic, eh?

From: Barneys

Cold Blue Steel And Sweet Fire - Joni Mithcell

2011-09-26T17:51:00.000-07:00

When I think winter, all I can think is "cold". "Depressing" and "grey" also comes to mind. But sometimes when I see knits like this from Pringle of Scotland, I occasionally think "Maybe it won't be so bad this year." It always is, but I haven't given up on the power of positive thought.

(From: The Outnet)

Circles - Soul Coughing

2011-09-25T08:48:00.000-07:00

Artist Sookyung Bae creates these incredible pictures by repeatedly taking photographs of significant members of his personal life. His work forces me to think about my own every day actions. How much do I stand and how much do I sit? When I stand, I tend to bend one knee and lean in to whoever I am speaking to. I really love any artwork of repetition. It seems so simple, but yet it never is.

Source: Brass and Butter
Photos: Richard Heller Gallery

Turquoise - Rubies

2011-09-24T20:14:00.000-07:00

One of the little joys of living with two professional photographers is that the learning curve is fast and furious. Two months in, I have managed to pick up a few new photo editing skills and assist on one excellent shoot. Kristen and Greg are getting married in two weeks. Not only are Kristen and Greg super down-to-earth but they're also tons of boisterous fun. By the time we got to the end of shoot, we were all taking pictures and jumping around.

Photos by Flutter Photo.

Cannons - Little Scream

2011-09-21T09:54:00.000-07:00

As I was debating whether or not refer back to Levi's as my default denim of choice, I came across this stunningly beautiful ad, which reminds us why we are free and why we should never take it for granted. Sometimes I feel indifferent about ads because their sole existence is to sell you a product. (If we want to get all Media Criticism, Communication 320 about it, I'll tell you that product consumption is the sole purpose of television . . . but that's for another blog). However you cannot deny when something moves you in a way which stays with you, for days.

I've been contemplating these Levi's for a few days now. I think they've finally won my hard earned cash.

Hands In The Sky - Here We Go Magic

2011-09-19T10:24:00.000-07:00

If you've hung around here long enough you may already know how much I love the work of Yoshimoto Nara. While there is a void of information about Nara on the internet, I still collect his books, postcards and whatever else I can get my hands on. These illustrations of the little girl floating in a dreamlike state have always been among my favorites and suddenly, I see them with new clarity.

Comptine D'un Autre Été: L'après Midi - Yann Tiersen

2011-09-18T19:00:00.000-07:00

Were you looking for a reason to feel inadequate this week? I can provide. You don't own a kickass apartment in Paris.
There. Better now?
I googled Tom to see what he had been up to lately. I knew he was in Paris but I didn't know it was like this. My fondest memories of my ex roommate include him biking up to me in London Fields with one hand on his BMX handlebar, the other holding a can of lager and calling "woot woot," from the distance. I also enjoyed that time when he chased away a potential suitor by telling them stories of my drunken awesomeness on summer vacation. And don't get me started on summer vacation. He and his siblings are very dear to me.

"i bet they're assholes."

I laughed aloud when I came across this comment thread which proved that I wasn't the only one who was jealous. I know random stranger, I know. I too would be most inclined to have this be my first thought. It only feels right. But I regret to inform you that Tom is one of the most kindest, funniest and creative people I've ever met.

No, it isn't fair.

(Photos from: The New York Times)

Call - Michael Naura

2011-09-17T22:18:00.000-07:00

I called my family home today to get the name of a product I was looking for from my sister. After two rings, I was connected with two pleasant phone voices.

"Hello", answered sweet lithe of my mother.
"Hello", was the polite but business like voice of my sister.
"Ahhh, just the person I was looking to speak with," I answered relieved.

Click.
Click.

"Hello? Anybody?"
I smiled, shook my head and hit redial.

(Photo: Etsy)

Hagrids Dream - Julius Affleck

2011-09-17T21:52:00.001-07:00

Selling like hotcakes, so fast we'll never see them, go these gorgeous dresses from Zero + Maria Cornejo. Season after season her aesthetics capture my fancy. Once upon a time I was strolling down the streets of Manhattan when I paused in front of a store window, mouth agape, mesmerized. I had no idea until later what boutique I had stopped at. I must have looked like a child with my nose in the window because my date at the time said jokingly, "anything you want, baby . . . anything at all". He had no idea . . .

(Photos: Net-A-Porter)

Oh, La Brea - Man Man

2011-09-16T08:34:00.000-07:00

Tis the season to be scarfy, fa la la la la la la la la.
Lem Lem makes my favorite scarves and a couple of years ago, I stocked up when they went on sale online at J Crew. Every season I look forward to layering and putting thought into how I do things. And then the cold arrives and suddenly it's "oh eff it, just put it on". I'm going to try and do better this fall. I have all the components to dress well, I'm just a lazy shit when it comes down to it.

(Photos from: Because I'm Addicted and Modern Hepburn)

Suite III Overture - Janelle Monáe

2011-09-14T19:05:00.000-07:00

I must say I'm a tad bit disappointed that Tibi decided to only make this shoe up to a size 40. It is pretty perfect, in my humble opinion. Let's start with the fact that it's a mary jane, the most perfect shoe. The sleek black leather looks supple and classy and the bow adds the perfect little touch of Janelle Monáe, who always looks like a million bucks. Why no love for the big footed girl, Tibi?

Yayo - Lana Del Rey

2011-09-14T06:57:00.000-07:00

I am so pleased to see that J. Crew is keeping strong for S/S 12, with this summer's nice brights (especially in the case of the trousers). I missed out on their orange Maddie trouser earlier this summer and man was I annoyed about it. The spoiled brat in me, hates when I can't get what I want in regard to material items . . . love and life is a whole 'nother cup of tea and I have fully accepted that I may never get what I want there. Ha.

How beautiful is that mint top and pink dress? Spring collections always give you something to look forward to through the long winter.

(Photos: Style, of course)

Cannons - Little Scream

2011-09-13T20:40:00.000-07:00

2011/08 Anna Rascouët-Paz | Gathering the Dots from San Francisco Creative Mornings on Vimeo.

I have been feeling completely uninspired lately. A bit like I was failing at life. Obviously I am not only one feeling this way. I watched my roommate's dog bark aimlessly out the window at any living thing which passed our house yesterday afternoon. It felt a bit like a metaphor for my life. Barking at no one in particular and afraid to let myself out.

This video lecture given by Anna Rascouët-Paz about curiousity had a lot of great points. No, I'm not curious enough. (Though I did know why there is upset in Chile). I tend to hold my own opinion with much higher regard than I probably should. And I don't argue with people because often I end up annoyed or upset. It leads me to conclude that I need to refocus and change my way of thinking. And only I have the power to change those things. Because as the annoying quote goes "today is the first day of the rest of your life".

Like Up - Slowdive

2011-09-09T22:33:00.001-07:00

Holy mother of color Yigal Azrouël! Every season there's a show which I think demonstrates the best use of bold color. We might have a winner early on, folks.

(Photos: Style.com . . . you know it)

Fantasia Upon A Ground For Three Violins - Henry Purcell

2011-09-08T19:33:00.000-07:00

As I'm currently reading a lot of historical non fiction, I came across this wonderful photo project of the DC area then . . . and now. It's really interesting how much people influence the historical reference. Buildings are great. But without the humans, these photos might not have quite the same effect. Either way, I thought I'd share.

(Photos: from here)

The Video Dept. - The Radio Dept.

2011-09-07T22:19:00.000-07:00

Tomorrow Luvies, I have work again through the weekend.
(Cue the cassette of "Hallelujah, Hallelujah").
How do you prepare for a busy day? The older I get, the more I believe in prepping the night before. Mostly because I'm fairly mentally incapable in the morning:

1. Lay out your clothes (even the undergarments). Come up with a few different options for the rest of the week in case you are prone to indecisiveness in the morning, like I am.

2. Prepare your breakfast options. If you're anything like me, you need to eat to start your day. I just pulled a casserole dish of rosemary potatoes out of the oven. They're easy to make and hit the spot when you need something hot. I also put my yoghurt at the front of the fridge and fill the kettle. Coffee gets taken out of the cupboard and placed on the counter.

3. Pack your bag. This sounds like a no brainer, but you would not believe how many hours I've wasted dashing around looking for my car keys, ipod, etc. Plus, I always have little extras (ballet clothes, a notebook, etc.)

These little hints help me get out the door without looking like a hot mess and chop 15+ minutes off my morning. Think about all the stupid shit you could do with that extra 15 minutes! Exactly.

Source: smuzi.tumblr.com via etoilee8 on Pinterest

(Photo above from: Wit + Delight)

Scorn Nothing - HIM

2011-09-03T08:11:00.000-07:00

As expected I am completely run down from this busy week. Last night I camped out on the sofa with my roommates and felt sickness setting in while we watched the film Cracks. I'm disappointed in the netflix community. Three point five stars? Really? Why not just four? If only for the brilliant costume design (though I'm not knocking the plot and cinematography). Eva Green gave a great performance as well. She played magical, creepy and crazy to a t.

(Photos: from Glamour Magazine UK)

All My Friends - LCD Soundsytem

2011-09-03T08:03:00.001-07:00

Source: redcapcards.com via Sarah on Pinterest

To anyone who has ever read this blog, felt the urge to comment, became my friend through it, sent well wishes on the birth of my niece, made me smile on a regular basis . . . thank you. You have no idea, how much you all means to me.

Isn't She Lovely? - Stevie Wonder

2011-08-31T00:31:00.000-07:00

And suddenly, we had no idea how we lived our lives without her.

Avery Quinn
August 30, 2011
8 lbs, 20.5 inches

Beautiful.

Repitition - Charlie Parker

2011-08-29T09:12:00.000-07:00

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See? I told you guys we'd all survive. Now let's get back to the important stuff.
The first time I picked up one of Marion Vidal's necklaces in the Anthropologie accessory store, I quickly put it down, due to the price tag. But then I quickly picked it back up again, because it was simple yet stunning. The type of piece which takes an all black ensemble to a level of gee-I-wish-I-Dressed-like-her instantly. I mean these are some swanky looking baubles. The necklaces keep popping up various places and I still want one and the price tag still makes me choke. And so on.

(Photos: La Garconne)

String Quartet In F Major (Second Movement) - Ravel

2011-08-27T15:20:00.000-07:00

So you might have heard there is a storm hitting the East Coast as I type. So far all we've seen is drizzly rain and a drop in the temperature. Otherwise all is fine. It's amazing how crazy everyone gets. I went to the grocery store yesterday (yeah, I know I'm feeding into it as well) and the shelves looked like the zombie apocalypse had already arrived. People were grabbing and snatching faster than the employees could put stuff out. It all made me feel kind of silly. My agenda this weekend is to listen to this song a couple more times and finish Jonathan Franzen's How To Be Alone, which I've been reading for the past month. I'm slow with reading essays. What's your hurricane plan, if you're in Irene's path?

Summer Clothes - Animal Collective

2011-08-24T12:47:00.000-07:00

Saturday was a nice, low key day for barging on the lake. (You didn't know I live on a lake)? And barging pairs perfectly with floppy sunhats and beer. My roommates and I even picked up a couple of stragglers along the way.

I'm already planning next summer's wardrobe and I've decided I definitely want a pair of shorts from Orlebar Brown if my bank account will allow for it. I'm convinced due to the price that they must be made out of magical unicorn hair. Or maybe they just fit perfectly. Either way, I want 'em.

Everything was going honky dory until it was time to get out of the water and we realized our borrowed barge didn't have a ladder! Uh oh. My roommate and brother-in-law (James) offered me a two armed pull out of the water, except they didn't pull hard enough and I ended up slamming into the side of the barge. One leg on board, one leg in the water. And yes, you know what I hit.

I scrambled up on the platform and whimpered for a minute or two before announcing that I was "okay". But my older sister (who can never leave well enough alone) had to lean in my direction and whisper in a low tone "So, does your ______ hurt?" I looked at her and replied with an impish smile and a wink, "Not as much as yours' will in a week."

Planet Home - Jamirouquai

2011-08-23T20:22:00.000-07:00

Source: None via Kelly on Pinterest

There was an earthquake y'all. I was wearing these Chloe sandals. Important details, guys.

Source: yoox.com via etoilee8 on Pinterest

Putting fashion aside for a brief moment, nothing too terrible happened. When I was in the moment, I was surprisingly calm (it was the thought of a more powerful quake which freaked me out later). I first had thoughts of displacement because it felt like airplane turbulence (my old nemesis) and then I thought "this is an earthquake and you need to get off twitter now".

I turned to my roommate Alejo and said "Grab the dog, we're getting out of here". So he put on Sasha's leash and we shot out the door. In the cul-de-sac of my neighborhood, neighbors were gathered and talking nervously among themselves. My Mum had Piper who was digging her claws into the ground refusing to budge (the dog may never poop again, she was so terrified). The phone lines were tied for at least an hour so it was hard to get through to people. The only real positive thing I can say about today is that it's an amazingly humanizing experience. Suddenly every stupid thing is pushed to the far corners of your mind and all you want to do is hug your loved ones and be happy no one was hurt. You comfort your neighbors. You hug their kids. You laugh about your "first response". But above all today made me pay respect to the all powerful earth, who sometimes I believe just barely tolerates human kind.

Flying Overseas - Theophilus London feat. Devonte Hynes & Solange Knowles

2011-08-22T23:35:00.000-07:00

Can you believe summer is nearly over? Me neither! It always goes by too quickly. And you know what else goes by too quickly? Fall! But you know who overstays their welcome ALWAYS? Winter. Winter is the house guest you hide from when you see them rolling up with a six pack of beer.

Around this time of year I always start feeling some sort of entitlement to a trip to the beach. But it doesn't look like this year's beach trip is going to happen either, so I leave you with living vicariously through this video which looks like a cross between a malfunctioning video cassette tape and a strange acid trip. Enjoy!

8 - Guillermo Scott Herren

2011-08-21T12:23:00.000-07:00

You might have already seen these here and there but as a child of the eighties with a penchant for Nintendo games, I could not not post them.

(From: Here)

You Can't always Get What You Want - The Rolling Stones

2011-08-21T12:03:00.001-07:00

Ain't that some sh*t?
But in those rare moments when I quit whining and complaining for a second, I realize I have nearly every thing I need.

(Photo: Pantonism is my new favorite blog).

That's The Way - Rita Marley

2011-08-19T12:09:00.000-07:00

She's Having A Baby
The good friend edition.
My dear sweet friend in Norway gave birth to a little boy yesterday. But not before she sat through twelve hours of contractions only to find nothing was going on. Her water had not even broke. Frustrated and tired, she was told by the hospital the best thing she could do was wait it out, at home. "Home" was two hours away, so ever a girl after my own heart . . . she went shopping instead. She bought a coat, a sweater and some mascara all while having small contractions. Then she went back to the hospital and pushed that little boy out like it ain't no thing. I don't think her picks looked anything like this but here are a few items I enjoy in order to illustrate her story. Dior Show I keep at the sink so I know to apply it before leaving the house.

I love, love, love my friends because I gain valuable insight from all of them. This friend in particular has the keen ability to just get through life while never making a large fuss about anything. I want to adopt her attitude towards pretty much everything.

Mood Indigo - Charles Mingus

2011-08-18T11:03:00.001-07:00

These shots from T by Alexander Wang Resort 2012 make me not entire heavyhearted that the bittersweet cooler months are on the horizon. I think more people need to wear bright colors in the winter and I think I shall make that my new goal. Less black and neutral, more blue and yellow. What about you? What will you wear this winter?

PS- I'll probably promptly forgot about this when the winter months do arrive.

(Photos: Style.com)

Portia Sloan - MGMT

2011-08-16T10:02:00.000-07:00

No wonder she now needs an assistant. Manrepeller is slaying. Whenever I hear about a blogger collaboration there's a morbid side of me that wonders if it will come out horrendous or whether the final product will even reflect any of the personal tastes of the blogger. But in the case of Manrepeller for Dannijo, I'd say she nailed it. It's as perfect as the pairing of Liberty London Girl with Hunter Boots.

(Photos: Refinery29)

So Much To Come

After All - The Cardigans

Baby - The Bird and the Bee

Aurora - Björk

Little Girl Blue - Chet Baker

The Old Revolution - Leonard Cohen

Bird On The Wire - Leonard Cohen

Love Yourself - Queen Ifrica

One of Us Cannot Be Wrong - Leonard Cohen

C'était ici - Yann Tiersen

Bookends - Simon and Garfunkel

Moondance - Van Morrison

Cry Me A River - Julie London

For Free - Joni Mitchell

Angoisse - Serge Gainsbourg

The Splendour - Pantha Du Prince

Untitled (Mexico) - Slowdive

What Are You Doing New Year's Eve - (sung by Zooey Deschanel and Joseph Gordon-Levitt )

Sumayah - Ahmed Jamal

Xmas Swagger - Princess Superstar

They Like It Slow - Star Slinger

Parosol - Jonquil

Life - Kotez

String Quartet No. 3 (Mishima) - Phillip Glass

The Luck Without - Throwing Snow

Memory Lane Happiness - Netsky vs. Lost Witness

Lofticries - Purity Ring

Away - Koreless

About a Girl - Nirvana Covered by Cibo Matto

Water From The Same Source - Rachels

Heaven's On Fire - The Radio Dept.

Admit It - Ambitious Lovers

Thanksgiving.

As Me - Land of Talk

The Edgy of Glory - Lady Gaga

Down In The Willow Garden - Art Garfunkel

At The Edge Of The World You Will Float - Telefon Tel Aviv

My Time - Mackintosh Braun

To Build A Home - Cinematic Orchestra

We Do What We Want - O+S

Teenie's Blues - Oliver Nelson

Dances Fantastic - Neva Dinova

Tape You - N*E*R*D

Good Bait - Nina Simone

Only Love Can Break Your Heart - Saint Etienne

Blu Eye Shadow - Arto Lindsay

Liquid Days (Part One) - Philip Glass

Hey Boy, Hey Girl - The Chemical Brothers

Shake A Fist - Hotchip

Carol of the Bells - The Bird and the Bee

Innervoice - Hooverphonic

Call For All Demons - Sun Ra

Infinity Girl - Stereolab

Great Pumpkin Waltz - Vince Guaraldi Trio

Fall Break - Aim

Un Sospiro in D Flat Major - Franz Liszt (played by Lang Lang)

Next Phase Short - Flying Lotus

If You Were Coming In The Fall - Carli Bruni

All Apologies - Nirvana

Disorder - Joy Division

Boots of Spanish Leather - Bob Dylan

Wondaland - Janelle Monáe

Arabeske for piano in C major, Op. 18 - Robert Schumann

Oúlamán (Seaweed) - Clannad

Within and Without - Washed Out

La La Love You - Pixies

Back To My Shack In The Rain Clouds - Pogo

Thank You - Todd Edwards

Oslo Skyline - Jaga Jazzists

Ribbon Bows - Joanna Newsom

A Series of Small Flames - Land of Talk

Looking For June - Gary Higgins

Lord Kill The Pain - Red House Painters

Cold Blue Steel And Sweet Fire - Joni Mithcell

Circles - Soul Coughing

Turquoise - Rubies

Cannons - Little Scream

Hands In The Sky - Here We Go Magic

Comptine D'un Autre Été: L'après Midi - Yann Tiersen

Call - Michael Naura

Tape You - NER*D